The Magic Of Making Up & Getting Your Ex To Return Your Call
There are ‘magic’ words that you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls. It sounds too good to be true, but there are some words that will just about put a spell on your ex and make them return your calls. Cool huh?…
I am going to let you in on this revolutionary beakthrough because this is one of the biggest questions from many thousands people from all over the world, that are trying to put their relationships back together.
I’m going to explain to you “The Magic of Making Up” and getting your ex to return your calls, but first a warning. In the eBook the “Magic Of Making Up” the strategy is all laid out and if you use this strategy alone, without an overall plan, you may wreak your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
Ok, before we get to the actual words, I want to go over what message is wrong and hardly ever will work and much worse, it will put you in a very bad ‘psychological’ position.
These fall into 2 categories. The PLEADING CATEGORY- And that is when your message sounds like this: “John / Mary, please, please call me. This is the 20th time that I have called you. I have to talk twith you now. Pleeease call me back”
Then there is the emergency type call which goes something like this. “John / Mary, this is an emergency. You need to call me as soon as you get this message.”
Alright, did you see what was wrong with these 2 approaches? What you really need to use to gain a big advantage is to create, CURIOSITY and SELF-INTEREST. These are 2 of the most POWERFUL forces in the human mind.
Now here’s the BIG SECRET! When you combine the 2 strategies, you have a recipe that will work just like MAGIC. So let’s see just what you can say, that will work almost each and every time.
In a very friendly manner do this. “Hi John / Mary. This is Cindy / Bob. I just wanted to let you know I sure appreciated what you did for me. Call me as I would like to thank you personally.”
Do you see how that uses both curiosity and self interest? John / Mary won’t be able to resist! He or she will think.. “What did I do?” “What does she/he appreciate?” And he/she will feel good because it is a very positive message.
OK… Before you make the call you need to do the “Set Up”.. and that is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciated. It can be anything small or BIG…but it has to be very believable.
This is IMPORTANT… You must have an underlying strategy OR, it simply won’t work! Okay? What I am telling you is… what you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important, than getting them to return your call. Does that make sense to you. Great! Now go out and DO IT. You’ll be glad you did!