Make sure you write down all the information you find that might incriminate your husband. Don’t try to remember it all, as you will not be able to, you are under enough stress already without having to keep all that information in your mind.

You must keep track of all suspicious activities, including the dates and times. An example of this would be if your husband goes to the gym, yet when he gets back his towel is neither wet not smelly. You will be able to track patterns in his behaviour when you have all the information written down.

It is important that you pay extremely close attention to all the things your husband says or does on a day-to-day basis, and make notes about it. You may think we have noticed a new or modified behaviour one day, but you are not really sure of yourself. If you are keeping note of all this you will be 100% sure that you are correct.

It is entirely up to you to set boundaries on how far you want to look into your husband’s private life. Many women believe that certain boundaries should not be crossed, but you need to decide what you feel comfortable doing. If your husband is cheating on you, you need to remember that the end will justify the means.

The most important thing to keep track of is your phone bill, if you notice strange numbers you should be very wary of what your husband is doing. It is one of the simplest mistakes he can make, calling his new girlfriend on your phone. If you have access you should also check his cell phone records.

At some point you will come across physical evidence that clearly points to your husband’s infidelity, make note of exactly where and how you found it. Afterwards make sure that you don’t leave any evidence behind, do not take originals of any paperwork, always make copies. You should not arouse any suspicions until you’re ready to confront your husband. All the evidence you find should be kept in a safe place.

When you think you have accumulated all the evidence you need, and you’re ready to confront your husband, make sure you have a plan! Write-down all the questions and accusations so that you won’t lose track. Have all the evidence prepared as it is important that you have a watertight case, don’t confront him until the evidence clearly points to his infidelity. You must prepare yourself for him to continue lying is will be a very emotional time for both of you.

Your intuition is a very powerful tool, remember to always follow it and it will lead you to the truth.

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