If you suspect that your spouse is cheating on you, your whole world falls apart. What started out as an affectionate, loving relationship where you couldn’t stay away from each other for more than a few hours, has changed. You know your spouse better than anybody else, so when he or she starts to behave differently towards you, it is very natural that you become suspicious.

You may still love your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend, but perhaps you suddenly you start to see a different behavioral pattern with him or her. Your partner may gradually seem to become cold and unloving and you don’t have a clue why.

You may now start to suspect that your partner is having an affair with another person, but you have no way of proving it. Confronting them directly with your suspicions might cause quite a stir, because there might be a perfectly normal explanation to their different behavior.

But don’t say or do anything you might regret later, until you’ve familiarized yourself with four of the most common signs of a cheating partner:

1. Unusual mobile phone behavior. You notice that your spouse hides their mobile phone from you, and leaves the room to have private conversations. You may even find out that all call details and text messages are erased.

2. Smelling from a different perfume or cologne than usual. Have you noticed this? Maybe your partner has become more conscious about their looks all of a sudden, and that can be a positive sign that something is going on behind the scenes.

3. Popping out at unusual hours. Working late all the time, attending endless meetings, and seeing people you haven’t even known to exist! Just showing a very suspicious behavior!

4. Spending hours privately in front of the computer, and making sure not to leave any traces of their internet activities, or even making sure you can’t log into the computer anymore, by changing the password.

The above signs of infidelity are just a tip of the iceberg, still they are the most common ones. However, you can hardly confront them with your worries and suspicions without solid proofs. Imagine what the stress of not knowing the truth is doing to your health!

So how can you prove that your partner is unfaithful to you?

Don’t ask them directly if they are unfaithful to you, unless you are prepared to listen to their lies. You must build a strong case before you confront them, and show them solid evidence you have collected.

You could hire an expensive PI, or you yourself could learn the secrets that have been used for decades by private investigators from around the world and have been proven to work, only for a fraction of the cost of hiring a private investigator!

You have to learn various techniques about how to spy on their internet activities, access their phone records, undelete deleted text messages, and how to reverse look up cellphone numbers, these are just a few examples of what you need to do.

It is also extremely important for you to prepare yourself verbally, legally and emotionally before you confront your partner. You have to be 100% sure that all your bases are covered, so they won’t be able to lie themselves out of their problems!

If you are planning your wedding in the near future, don’t forget to start organizing your wedding favors as soon as possible. Fortunately, there are a number of different options which are very easy to arrange at the last minute. With this in mind, it should be one less item you have to worry about for your big day because your favors might just be a phone call away.

An easy wedding favor option is flowers which really don’t take much to arrange but guests can enjoy. There is virtually no preparation involved in this and depending on how many guests you have you may not have to order them well in advance.

The traditional symbol of love, the red rose is one of the more popular choices and they do not require much preparation. It is a simple matter of asking one of your family to place the roses just before everyone is seated at the wedding reception table.

More and more people decide an easy wedding favor to give their guests is candy in a presentation tin or box. However, there is an even easier way to give candy and also help you to save money on centerpieces. This can be accomplished by using large bowls filled with different types of candy as the centerpieces on each table.

You can then provide each wedding guest with a small bag and a note encouraging them to enjoy the candy in the centerpiece. All you have to do is let each guest have the option to take whatever candy they like and you won’t have anything more to do.

Pictures frames can also work well especially if they are used as place card holders. This is a good idea but wrapping this type of wedding favor can put many people off especially when there are a large number of guests. If you use the frames to hold the place cards however, wrapping will not be necessary.

A different but still an easy wedding favor is to supply every guest with a picture of themselves arriving at the wedding reception using the services of a professional photographer armed with a digital camera. So to make sure each guest leaves with their photo, the photographer could take along a fast digital printer then they could be printed out whilst the guests are enjoying the reception. As everyone will be looking at their best this is a wedding favor they will really enjoy; seeing themselves this way in a professional photo. If the photographer can arrange a slide show, the guests not only get a personal memento but they also get the opportunity to see how the photos turned out for all of the other guests as well.

Few events in life are as memorable as the moment you ask somebody to share the rest of your life with you. Why not give that special occasion a spectacular backdrop like a sunset in Hawaii or a majestic mountain setting? Special bed and breakfast inns throughout our country afford hassle-free access to some of the most amazing natural landscapes America has to offer. Set the tone of your future life together with invigorating outdoor adventure followed by cozy indoor luxury - just remember to pack the ring!

Propose by the Sea

Set in the beautiful West Maui Mountains is a bed and breakfast named the Ho’oilo House. The mountains provide a unique backdrop (catch the sunrise on Mount Haleakala), but you also have spectacular ocean views, as well. If you want to go the extra mile to make the proposal even more unique, consider whale watching from a helicopter or during a tree-top zip-line adventure. The area has a variety of great places and settings to make the perfect proposal.

How About Cherry Blossoms?

Perhaps Washington, D.C., sounds more patriotic than romantic, but consider spring time. The pink-white blossoms of the cherry trees can provide the ideal setting. Set up base at the Embassy Circle Guest House, which is at Dupont Circle, and hit the city. In spring, you will also beat the humidity and heat (as well as swarms of tourist traffic). With the cherry blossoms in bloom and showering you in a breeze of flowers, you’ll be sure to capture the moment.

Ask on Top of a Glacier

Looking for something more extreme? How about heading out to Alaska’s Capital Inn where you will find an incredible setting and a variety of places to make the proposal. Consider a hike on a glacier, kayaking as bald eagles soar nearby or a trip on a float plane. The inn was built 100 years ago and abounds with history and spectacular nature.

Desert Skies and Red Rocks

Named of the Top Romantic Inns of 2006 by American Historic Inns, this Arizona bed and breakfast gives you the red rocks of Thunder Mountain and an amazing desert setting. The Adobe Grand Villas is ideal for the occasion. If your looking for something more unique, consider the lions and grazing zebras that can be seen in the new “Out of Africa” Wildlife Park. The tranquil retreat of the Adobe Grand Villas and the spectacular desert skies will be sure to please.

Amid Pine Trees and a Mountain Lake

Located among the tall pine trees of Big Bear, this California bed and breakfast inn offers a secluded, romantic setting. Take a chilled bottle of champagne in front of your crackling fire during winter. Or head out on horseback with a picnic basket during the summer. Whatever the season, you can set the mood at the Gold Mountain Manor.

Whether it’s under the desert skies in Arizona or by a mountain lake in California, make the moment a memoriable one.