Some signs of a cheating wife are quite obvious, if you’ll allow yourself to see them. If you happen to see receipts in the trash for condoms or lingerie, or perhaps see the actual items, but they are never used during the times you are intimate with your wife, that’s a pretty strong sign that she’s got something going on.

Another obvious sign of a cheating wife is when she becomes secretive. If she starts to go someplace private for phone conversations or spends a lot of time on the internet, but you notice the browsing history has been deleted, that is definitely suspicious. Now, she might be planning a surprise for you (if the secrecy occurs around the time of your birthday or some other special occasion, I suggest you relax for the time being). Her online secrecy might also be due to indulging some fantasy in cyberspace that will never be part of her real-world life, but it does indicate that she’s looking for something that is lacking from your relationship, and this is a signal that some work could be done to improve things.

Another common sign of a cheating wife is sudden changes in sexual desire. Some cheating wives will begin to avoid sexual contact with their spouses, while others may seek it out more than usual. Both increased and decreased sexual interest can also be signs of other things, such as hormonal changes, so this sign of cheating needs to be considered along with the presence or absence of other signs.

Besides the amount of sexual interest, there may be changes in how she behaves during sexual intimacy. She might kiss differently or perhaps want to engage in sexual acts or sexual positions that she has never done before. While this may simply be due to an idea she got from a magazine article or friend, a new interest in a sexual position or act could be a sign that a new partner has given her new ideas.

A sign of a cheating wife that can be easy to miss is when she spends a lot of time with one of her female friends and that friend starts to take up all of your wife’s time, inculding late nights and weekends. In such cases, the friend may be your wife’s alibi so she can sneak off to be with her male companion. In some situations, the friend actually turns out to be the one the wife is cheating with. It can be easy to ignore the signs of a cheating wife when she’s spending her time with a woman, but you need to be aware of the very real possibility that she could in fact be cheating on you with another woman rather than another man.

If you have reason to believe that your wife is being unfaithful, it is very important to try to get your emotions under control and then carefully gather the evidence you need to be sure of what’s going on, and then decide what you want to do about it. The strong emotions that are typical when you suspect infidelity might provoke you into rushing into some action that you’ll regret later on. It is best to try to stay cool and calm and carefully get the proof you need that she is actually being unfaithful.

There are several ways to do this, and there are quite a number of online resources to help you do it yourself. The thing you have to realize is that you are emotionally involved in this, and chances are you are not as skilled as a professional investigator, so if you are going to collect your own evidence, you need a system that is simple to implement and allows you to get the evidence you need without risking getting caught investigating her. After all, if it turns out that she is not cheating, and she finds out that you were investigating her, that could sour the relationship just as easily as if she were having an affair - only in this case, you are the “bad guy” - the jealous, insecure, “nut-job” - and you will be the one your mutual friends turn against. So, choose carefully how you are going to go about things.

Once you have proof that she’s been cheating, then and only then should you confront your wife. It is also a good idea to figure out ahead of time what it is you want to do about the situation. Do you want to try to work things out, or do you want to end the marriage. It is extremely important to keep your emotions under control as much as possible. Although violent or destructive behavior might provide a brief satisfying release of emotion, the potential legal trouble that can develop from such behavior is far more damaging to your life in the long run than what she did.

By keeping your anger and hurt under control you can make sure to carefully assess whether the signs of a cheating wife that you have observed are truly indicators of her being unfaithful, or if there’s some other explanation. If it turns out that she has been cheating, you can then consider what to do next.

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People may want a divorce for various reasons. Technically, it is easy to write down your reason to support a petition. In reality though, there may be hundreds of unique reasons why certain couples just want out. Sometimes, there is more that just one reason. Here are only some of the possible causes of divorce:

Communication Problems

Communications problems between a couple may possibly exist even long before they tie the knot. Expectations may not have been made clear or certain issues that could affect a marriage were not brought up. Discussing feelings about aspects that are personally important is also crucial but may not always be practiced by couples. Some couples may put little weight on pre-marital issues only to realize during marriage that they should have clearly set things in black and white or that hey should have been better listeners. Communication issues before marriage can get worse after getting married.

Financial Issues

Another major cause of disagreement between married couples is, of course, financial matters. Married couples could squabble over such issues as shared financial responsibility, unequal financial status, undisclosed financial state, over spending and lack of financial support. Evidence suggests though that money is not always the sole or primary cause of divorce. Nonetheless, it is still a significant factor. Again, the lack of communication over financial issues is the real culprit here and not money per se.

Forms of Abuse

All forms of abuse are possible causes of divorce. This does not just include intentional and habitual physical battery. Abuse may also come in the form of sexual abuse and emotional abuse. One partner may actively seek to degrade his/her partner through harsh language.

Sometimes, abuse may also come in the form of a spouse abusing alcohol or drugs or gambling excessively. There may be no physical or verbal abuse but the other partner would understandably have a difficult time managing finances and daily life with an addicted spouse.

Marital Infidelity

In a monogamous society, the law states that marriage must be a mutually exclusive arrangement between two parties. This is of course unless both partners privately consent on their own to see other people while remaining married to each other. Otherwise, one may seek to divorce a spouse if evidence of infidelity is clearly obtained.

Sexual Problems

Sex is an essential aspect of marriage. Couples are expected to consummate or perform the act. That is unless a person knows and accepts before marriage that one partner has some sexual problems. In some cases, sexual dysfunction or disinterest may begin after tying the knot. If a couple is unable to resolve this, it may become a reason for divorce.

Incompatibility

Researches show that incompatibility is the most-cited reason for divorce. There are however numerous kinds and forms of incompatibility. A couple may be incompatible in anything and everything. They may not be able to find a common ground sexually, intellectually and emotionally. In cases of incompatibility, it might just be unbearable to live life with someone you just can’t fit with.