• You are currently browsing the Need A Divorce Lawyer weblog archives for October, 2007.

• • Choosing The Best Divorce Lawyer
    
  • Divorce Without A Lawyer
    
  • Do You Need To Find A Divorce Lawyer
    
  • Is It Time For A Divorce Lawyer
    
  • There Are Cheap Divorce Lawyers
  • Online DIVORCE




New York Goes No-Fault Governor David Patterson signed a bill passing no-fault divorce law for the state of New York. The new bill will allow couples to divorce by mutual consent or unilaterally.Governor Paterson said in a statement. "These bills fix a broken process that produced extended and contentious litigation, poisoned feelings between the parties and harmed the interests of those persons -- too often women -- who did not have sufficient financial wherewithal to protect their legal rights. I commend the sponsors on providing a real and effective legislative solution to a problem that has for too long bedeviled ordinary New Yorkers."Evidently Governor Patterson knows nothing about divorce in those states that already have no-fault divorce laws. It is the two people divorcing who determine how "contentious" the litigation becomes, not the laws of the state. Too bad states can't adopt laws require couples to be civil and respectful during the divorce process.To say that no-fault divorce laws protect the financial interest of anyone is ludicrous. It is especially so as far as women and children go. No-fault divorce laws give free reign to men who want to abandon a wife and his children. I'm not sure why Governor Patterson believes a woman will have more "sufficient financial wherewithal to protect their legal rights" under a no-fault system. A woman will fare as well under no-fault laws as she did under fault laws. In most cases that isn't very well.What do no-fault divorce laws really mean for the state of New York? It means a man can be left, with no legal recourse should his wife find someone new. She, more than likely can take his children, change forever the time his is allowed to have with his children, request alimony and get child support all on a whim.A woman can be left to raise her children alone or after decades of marriage face her retirement years alone should some prettier, younger model come along. Her husband can sail off into the sunset with his new sweetie while the old model works well past the age of retirement just to keep a roof over her head.No-fault divorce, just like fault divorce is not in the best interest of most. Lies are told, harm is done and feelings are "poisoned" regardless of the laws. At least under fault divorce laws you have to work your way out of a marriage. People are forced to stop and think twice before dismantling something that was once precious to them. That is no longer the case in New York. New York Goes No-Fault originally appeared on About.com Divorce Support on Monday, August 16th, 2010 at 00:58:23.Permalink | Comment | Email this

New York Goes No-Fault Governor David Patterson signed a bill passing no-fault divorce law for the state of New York. The new bill will allow couples to divorce by mutual consent or unilaterally.Governor Paterson. Can Spending Too Much Time Together Lead to Divorce? My ex had no outside interest. His life revolved around family and work. If he wasn't at work, every time I turned around I bumped into him. I encouraged him to take up golf, go our for drinks with his buddies.anything that would give him to opportunity to get away from work and family stress. We spent too much time together which in the end played a role in the demise of our marriage.There was no sense of space or privacy in my marriage. No balance between work, family and fun. It was as if we gave up being individuals and became one and I'm not someone who believes that marriage means sacrificing yourself.I believe that absence really does make the heart grow fonder. My ex would have been much more attractive to me if he had, had interests outside work and family. As it was I felt smothered and that I had married a dependent instead of an independent man.It is scientifically proven that we have more interest in our spouse if we spend.post continued Can Spending Too Much Time Together Lead to Divorce? originally appeared on About.com Divorce Support on Tuesday, August 24th, 2010 at 01:00:41.Permalink | Comment | Email this

• Archives

  • March 2009
  • February 2009
  • January 2009
  • December 2008
  • November 2008
  • August 2008
  • July 2008
  • June 2008
  • May 2008
  • April 2008
  • March 2008
  • February 2008
  • January 2008
  • December 2007
  • November 2007
  • October 2007
  • September 2007
  • August 2007
  • July 2007
  • June 2007
  • May 2007
  • April 2007
  • March 2007
  • February 2007
  • January 2007
  • December 2006
  • November 2006

• Categories

  • Cheating (15)
  • Divorce (376)
  • Marital Therapy (4)
  • Marriage (81)
  • Marriage Counselling (4)
  • Uncategorized (1)

Need A Divorce Lawyer is proudly powered by WordPress
All rights reserved ::Sites to Visit ::Privacy :: TOS :: Contact :: Articles