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Post Divorce Sex: Don't Forget to Play it Safe!
So you're planning to go out on a date- how exciting! Whether it's with someone new or someone you've already seen a few times, your adrenaline is.

Post Divorce Sex: Don't Forget to Play it Safe!
So you're planning to go out on a date- how exciting! Whether it's with someone new or someone you've already seen a few times, your adrenaline is probably pumping; dating and sex after divorce can nerve-wracking!But before you run out your door, there's something I want you to do: go put a few latex condoms in your purse or wallet 'just in case'. Don't have any? Then promise yourself you'll stop by the drugstore and pick up a fresh box en route.Nope - I don't want to hear any excuses. I don't care if she told you she hasn't had sex with anyone but her ex-husband. I don't care if he said he was tested for STDs just last week. I don't care what you've been told, what your gut tells you, or how much you hate condoms - I want you to bring some along anyway.Sexually transmitted diseases are a frightening reality that us newbies to dating again have to get in the know about. Having been married for years and accustomed to unprotected sex, your inclination may be to 'trust' your new partner, however long you've known him/her. But I'm here to remind you.post continued

Post Divorce Sex: Don't Forget to Play it Safe! originally appeared on About.com Divorce Support on Friday, July 9th, 2010 at 20:00:30.Permalink | Comment | Email this

Mel Gibson: Love, Misery and Midlife Crisis
We've learned a lot about Mel Gibson over the last week. It would seem he's a racist, a sexist, a homophobe, and an anti-Semite with quite the oral fixation. From where I sit it would seem that Mel is also on the down-side of one hell of a Midlife Crisis.I don't think the man we are now seeing is the man he once was? Seven years ago Mel did an interview with the Daily Mail, below is a quote from that interview. It is Mel on his long-term marriage to then wife Robin."You're going to get ups and downs and you're going to get days when you really want to strangle each other. That is just going to happen. It doesn't matter who the other person is. You can think, 'Well, if I find someone else', but that's bullshit. You're going to go through the same old shit with anybody. You just have to adapt and give and take and receive and give. So you might as well stay where you're at and figure it out.'Every time that happens and you go through a dry spell - and in 22 years that happens a lot - when you come out the other side you're just so much better at it."Compare the words above to those we've all heard lately from Mel. He went from righteous family man to a man whose actions fly in the face of his previous belief system. And no doubt you've noticed the self-referential and grandiose thought patterns displayed. All typical signs of someone having a difficult time transitioning during midlife.The good news for Mel is that some do "come out the other side" and are much better "at it" whatever that "it" is. And, if lucky the wife and children they left behind will be waiting in the wings. It would seem, if reports are true that Mel will be one of the lucky ones.According to New York Magazine Mel has sold properties owned here in the U.S. and will move back to Australia. Some friends say plans are for his ex-wife Robin to also move with him. According to the DailyTelegraph, "Oksana's allegations of domestic abuse have united Mel and Robyn, and the move is Robin's idea."Whether the reports of a move to Australia are true or not, one can still hold onto the hope that somewhere inside Mel Gibson is the ability to make amends with the people who count, his wife and children who have continued to love him through and in spite of this destructive phase of life.Related Articles:Surviving Your Spouse's Midlife Crisis The Difference Between Men and Women in Midlife Crisis Communicating With a Midlife Crisis Spouse

Mel Gibson: Love, Misery and Midlife Crisis originally appeared on About.com Divorce Support on Sunday, July 18th, 2010 at 16:07:03.Permalink | Comment | Email this

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