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Divorce: Coping With The Family Law Process

The Emotions Divorce is a scary, lonely and misunderstood process for most people, particularly when there are children involved. The mutual…

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Casual Sex: Tempting or Taboo?
Let's cut to the chase: all of us divorced adults have had sex and most of us still want sex. The problem is that we may not want the 'strings' of a full-on relationship; we just aren't ready. And, as much as masturbation gives our bodies something to 'snack on,' we know what we really want is the Full-Meal Deal.The question of whether sex without strings is "bad" or "good" ultimately comes down to you, the person deciding. You're the one who has to live inside your head and body, you're the one who holds the gavel. To help you decide when or if you want to cross that line, here are six questions you may want to ask yourself.

Are you being honest with yourself about what you want?The last thing you need after walking through the bowels of Divorce Hell is to start emotionally reeling again. And if you think your yearning for sex is actually a yearning for a new relationship, you'll be headed for heartache all over.Be as clear and honest with yourself as possible. And at the very least, if you decide to go ahead and take the leap, promise yourself you won't beat yourself up if it doesn't turn out as planned.
Do you feel a sense of value in who you are, regardless of what any other man/woman may think?In casual sex relationships, partners often don't know, or want to know, everything about each other. This means you shouldn't feel a need to 'prove' who you are and seek validation for your magnificence through his/her eyes - you should KNOW it. You may not TOTALLY be in a place where you.post continued

Casual Sex: Tempting or Taboo? originally appeared on About.com Divorce Support on Thursday, July 8th, 2010 at 20:00:01.Permalink | Comment | Email this

Post Divorce Sex: Don't Forget to Play it Safe!
So you're planning to go out on a date- how exciting! Whether it's with someone new or someone you've already seen a few times, your adrenaline is probably pumping; dating and sex after divorce can nerve-wracking!But before you run out your door, there's something I want you to do: go put a few latex condoms in your purse or wallet 'just in case'. Don't have any? Then promise yourself you'll stop by the drugstore and pick up a fresh box en route.Nope - I don't want to hear any excuses. I don't care if she told you she hasn't had sex with anyone but her ex-husband. I don't care if he said he was tested for STDs just last week. I don't care what you've been told, what your gut tells you, or how much you hate condoms - I want you to bring some along anyway.Sexually transmitted diseases are a frightening reality that us newbies to dating again have to get in the know about. Having been married for years and accustomed to unprotected sex, your inclination may be to 'trust' your new partner, however long you've known him/her. But I'm here to remind you.post continued

Post Divorce Sex: Don't Forget to Play it Safe! originally appeared on About.com Divorce Support on Friday, July 9th, 2010 at 20:00:30.Permalink | Comment | Email this

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