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Casual Sex: Tempting or Taboo?
Let's cut to the chase: all of us divorced adults have had sex and most of us still want sex. The problem is that we may not want the 'strings' of a full-on relationship; we just aren't ready. And, as much as masturbation gives our bodies something to 'snack on,' we know what we really want is the Full-Meal Deal.The question of whether sex without strings is "bad" or "good" ultimately comes down to you, the person deciding. You're the one who has to live inside your head and body, you're the one who holds the gavel. To help you decide when or if you want to cross that line, here are six questions you may want to ask yourself.

Are you being honest with yourself about what you want?The last thing you need after walking through the bowels of Divorce Hell is to start emotionally reeling again. And if you think your yearning for sex is actually a yearning for a new relationship, you'll be headed for heartache all over.Be as clear and honest with yourself as possible. And at the very least, if you decide to go ahead and take the leap, promise yourself you won't beat yourself up if it doesn't turn out as planned.
Do you feel a sense of value in who you are, regardless of what any other man/woman may think?In casual sex relationships, partners often don't know, or want to know, everything about each other. This means you shouldn't feel a need to 'prove' who you are and seek validation for your magnificence through his/her eyes - you should KNOW it. You may not TOTALLY be in a place where you.post continued

Casual Sex: Tempting or Taboo? originally appeared on About.com Divorce Support on Thursday, July 8th, 2010 at 20:00:01.Permalink | Comment | Email this

Mel Gibson: Love, Misery and Midlife Crisis
We've learned a lot about Mel Gibson over the last week. It would seem he's a racist, a sexist, a homophobe, and an anti-Semite with quite the oral fixation. From where I sit it would seem that Mel is also on the down-side of one hell of a Midlife Crisis.I don't think the man we are now seeing is the man he once was? Seven years ago Mel did an interview with the Daily Mail, below is a quote from that interview. It is Mel on his long-term marriage to then wife Robin."You're going to get ups and downs and you're going to get days when you really want to strangle each other. That is just going to happen. It doesn't matter who the other person is. You can think, 'Well, if I find someone else', but that's bullshit. You're going to go through the same old shit with anybody. You just have to adapt and give and take and receive and give. So you might as well stay where you're at and figure it out.'Every time that happens and you go through a dry spell - and in 22 years that happens a lot - when you come out the other side you're just so much better at it."Compare the words above to those we've all heard lately from Mel. He went from righteous family man to a man whose actions fly in the face of his previous belief system. And no doubt you've noticed the self-referential and grandiose thought patterns displayed. All typical signs of someone having a difficult time transitioning during midlife.The good news for Mel is that some do "come out the other side" and are much better "at it" whatever that "it" is. And, if lucky the wife and children they left behind will be waiting in the wings. It would seem, if reports are true that Mel will be one of the lucky ones.According to New York Magazine Mel has sold properties owned here in the U.S. and will move back to Australia. Some friends say plans are for his ex-wife Robin to also move with him. According to the DailyTelegraph, "Oksana's allegations of domestic abuse have united Mel and Robyn, and the move is Robin's idea."Whether the reports of a move to Australia are true or not, one can still hold onto the hope that somewhere inside Mel Gibson is the ability to make amends with the people who count, his wife and children who have continued to love him through and in spite of this destructive phase of life.Related Articles:Surviving Your Spouse's Midlife Crisis The Difference Between Men and Women in Midlife Crisis Communicating With a Midlife Crisis Spouse

Mel Gibson: Love, Misery and Midlife Crisis originally appeared on About.com Divorce Support on Sunday, July 18th, 2010 at 16:07:03.Permalink | Comment | Email this

Post Divorce Sex: Don't Forget to Play it Safe!
So you're planning to go out on a date- how exciting! Whether it's with someone new or someone you've already seen a few times, your adrenaline is.

How to Keep the Wicked out of Stepparenting
If you remarry someone with children, you of course want the transition into the new relationship and marriage to be easy. Below are a few tips to help you.

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